This is fascinating and it's another story in which research seems to have confirmed the wisdom of the ages. Investigators at Brigham Young University looked at the relationship between our social connections and survival in a so-called meta analysis (pooled data from 148 previous studies with an average duration of more than 7 years) that involved more than 300,000 people. The original study appeared in the open-access online journal PLoS Medicine and is reported by e! Science News and other outlets. According to the investigators and as reported by e! Science News, lack of social interactivity/connectedness was roughly equivalent to the following:
>>Smoking 15 cigarettes a day
>>Being an alcoholic
>>More harmful than not exercising
>>Twice as dangerous to your health as being obese.
Wow. Furthermore, social interactivity increased the odds of survival in the subjects by 50%. Meta analyses have limitations, but I think the trend is clear. Some of the news reports about this study have bemoaned the fact that many of us see more friends online than in person. I would rather have lunch or a drink with a friend, of course, and we all spend too much time on our butts in front of computers. But I wonder about online social networks, especially ones that are made up primarily of people we do know personally. Why wouldn't those connections also be beneficial, especially when it makes it possible to keep in touch with people that you can't see regularly anymore because of geography, work/family commitments, etc.? A difficult study to do, but a useful one.
In the meantime, throw a party.